Phrase guide

find oneself

verb · 6 senses · updated from the 2026-07-25 local source snapshot

Definitions and examples are grouped by meaning. Pronunciation, history, word forms, translations, descendants, synonyms, antonyms, derived terms, and related words appear whenever the source provides them.

Sound

Pronunciation

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  • General-American, Received-Pronunciation: /ˈfaɪnd wʌnsɛlf/
  • Australia: Recorded audio is listed in the source snapshot.

1

verb

Meaning 1

To learn, or attempt to learn, the essence or nature of one's character and the aims or desires one pursues in life.

Definition source: English Wiktionary via Wiktextract

Usage: idiomatic

Examples

  • When he was in his early twenties, he backpacked around Europe to find himself.

Meaning relationships

Synonyms: none provided

Antonyms: none provided

2

verb

Meaning 2

To unexpectedly or unintentionally begin to do or experience something.

Definition source: English Wiktionary via Wiktextract

Usage: idiomatic

Examples

  • As you enter the cafe, you find yourself wondering why they decided to paint the entire room blue.
  • When news of his wife’s murder spread around the media, he found himself in front of a press conference explaining his actions.

Meaning relationships

Synonyms: none provided

Antonyms: none provided

3

verb

Meaning 3

To be in a particular state of mind.

Definition source: English Wiktionary via Wiktextract

Usage: idiomatic

Examples

  • How do you find yourself this morning?

Meaning relationships

Synonyms: none provided

Antonyms: none provided

4

verb

Meaning 4

To find (something) for oneself.

Definition source: English Wiktionary via Wiktextract

Usage: literally

Examples

  • I need to find myself a boat.

Meaning relationships

Synonyms: none provided

Antonyms: none provided

5

verb

Meaning 5

To discover oneself to be in a particular place.

Definition source: English Wiktionary via Wiktextract

Usage: literally

Examples

  • I got drunk and woke to find myself in the neighbour’s garden the next morning.

Meaning relationships

Synonyms: none provided

Antonyms: none provided

6

verb

Meaning 6

accept and make use of one's personality, abilities, and situation

Definition source: Princeton WordNet 3.0

Examples

  • My son went to Berkeley to find himself

Meaning relationships

Synonyms: find

Antonyms: none provided

Broader terms: mature, maturate, grow

History

Etymology

No etymology was provided for this word.

Across languages

Translations

30 source translations are retained for this English entry.

  • Chinese Mandarin: 发现自我 — to learn what kind of person one is
  • Danish: finde sig selv — to learn what kind of person one is
  • Danish: befinde sig selv — to learn what kind of person one is
  • Finnish: löytää itsensä — to learn what kind of person one is
  • French: trouver sa voie — to learn what kind of person one is
  • German: die Identität finden — to learn what kind of person one is
  • Norwegian Bokmål: finne seg selv — to learn what kind of person one is
  • Polish: rozumieć się — to learn what kind of person one is
  • Polish: zrozumieć się — to learn what kind of person one is
  • Romanian: se regăsi — to learn what kind of person one is
  • Danish: opdage man er — to unexpectedly or unintentionally begin to do or experience something
  • Finnish: löytää itsensä — to unexpectedly or unintentionally begin to do or experience something
  • French: se surprendre à — to unexpectedly or unintentionally begin to do or experience something
  • Romanian: se trezi — to unexpectedly or unintentionally begin to do or experience something
  • Romanian: se pomeni — to unexpectedly or unintentionally begin to do or experience something
  • Danish: have det — to be in a particular state of mind
  • Finnish: olla ... tuulella — to be in a particular state of mind
  • Norwegian Bokmål: befinne seg — to be in a particular state of mind
  • Norwegian Bokmål: føle seg — to be in a particular state of mind
  • Danish: finde sig — to find (something) for oneself
  • Finnish: löytää itselleen — to find (something) for oneself
  • Norwegian Bokmål: finne seg — to find (something) for oneself
  • Danish: finde sig — to discover oneself to be in a particular place
  • Dutch: zich in een bepaalde plek bevinden — to discover oneself to be in a particular place
  • Esperanto: sintrovi — to discover oneself to be in a particular place
  • Finnish: löytää itsensä — to discover oneself to be in a particular place
  • Hungarian: találja magát — to discover oneself to be in a particular place
  • Italian: ritrovarsi — to discover oneself to be in a particular place
  • Ukrainian: опиня́тися (opynjátysja) — to discover oneself to be in a particular place
  • Ukrainian: опини́тися (opynýtysja) — to discover oneself to be in a particular place