Phrase guide

give someone the cold shoulder

verb · 1 senses · updated from the 2026-07-25 local source snapshot

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verb

Meaning 1

To snub, resist or reject somebody; to regard somebody distantly.

Definition source: English Wiktionary via Wiktextract

Usage: idiomatic

Examples

  • I must have made him angry with my comment. He’s been giving me the cold shoulder ever since I said it.

Meaning relationships

Synonyms: none provided

Antonyms: none provided

History

Etymology

First recorded use of the expression was in 1816 by Sir Walter Scott in Scots (“The Countess’s dislike didna gang farther at first than just showing o’ the cauld shouther”.) This expression and its German equivalent are mistranslations of dederunt umerum recedentem from the Book of Nehemiah 9:29 from the Vulgate Bible, which actually means "stubbornly they turned their backs on you", which comes from the Septuagint Bible's equivalent ἔδωκαν (édōkan) νῶτον ἀπειθοῦντα. Latin umerus means both "shoulder" and "back".

Across languages

Translations

18 source translations are retained for this English entry.

  • Chinese Mandarin: 不理不睬 (bùlǐbùcǎi) — snub
  • Chinese Mandarin: 冷落 (lěngluò) — snub
  • Chinese Mandarin: 冷淡 (lěngdàn) — snub
  • Dutch: iemand links laten liggen — snub
  • Finnish: olla ynseä jotakin kohtaan — snub
  • Finnish: kohdella jotakin ynseästi — snub
  • Finnish: kohdella jotakuta kylmäkiskoisesti — snub
  • Finnish: kohdella jotakuta yliolkaisesti — snub
  • French: être en froid avec quelqu'un — snub
  • French: battre froid à quelqu'un — snub
  • German: die kalte Schulter zeigen — snub
  • Japanese: 白い目で見る (shiroi me de miru) — snub
  • Polish: traktować jak powietrze — snub
  • Polish: potraktować jak powietrze — snub
  • Russian: оказа́ть холо́дный приём (okazátʹ xolódnyj prijóm) — snub
  • Spanish: dar la espalda — snub
  • Spanish: hacer el vacío — snub
  • Ukrainian: д́ати гарбуза́ (d́aty harbuzá) — snub