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high-maintenance

adj · 2 senses · updated from the 2026-07-25 local source snapshot

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adj

Meaning 1

Requiring a high degree of maintenance to ensure proper functioning, and without which it is likely to break down.

Definition source: English Wiktionary via Wiktextract

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Meaning relationships

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adj

Meaning 2

Requiring a lot of attention or reassurance; emotionally needy

Definition source: English Wiktionary via Wiktextract

Usage: derogatory, figuratively

Examples

  • He has this incredibly high-maintenance girlfriend; if he doesn't tell her that he loves her every five minutes, she tends to break down into hysterical depressive weepy fits.

Meaning relationships

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History

Etymology

According to the Random House Historical Dictionary of American Slang, the figurative sense was popularized by the 1989 romantic comedy When Harry Met Sally....

Across languages

Translations

3 source translations are retained for this English entry.

  • Hungarian: sok törődést igénylő — requiring a high degree of maintenance to ensure proper functioning, and without which it is likely to break down
  • Russian: тре́бующий постоя́нного ухо́да (trébujuščij postojánnovo uxóda) — requiring a high degree of maintenance to ensure proper functioning, and without which it is likely to break down
  • Hungarian: sok odafigyelést/törődést igénylő — (of a person) requiring a lot of attention or reassurance; emotionally needy
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