Phrase guide

wear the trousers

verb · 3 senses · updated from the 2026-07-25 local source snapshot

Definitions and examples are grouped by meaning. Pronunciation, history, word forms, translations, descendants, synonyms, antonyms, derived terms, and related words appear whenever the source provides them.

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1

verb

Meaning 1

Typically of a woman, to be the dominant partner in a relationship.

Definition source: English Wiktionary via Wiktextract

Usage: UK, idiomatic

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Meaning relationships

Synonyms: rule the roost, wear the breeches, wear the pants

Antonyms: none provided

2

verb

Meaning 2

Used other than figuratively or idiomatically: see wear, trouser.

Definition source: English Wiktionary via Wiktextract

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Meaning relationships

Synonyms: none provided

Antonyms: none provided

3

verb

Meaning 3

exercise authority or be in charge

Definition source: Princeton WordNet 3.0

Examples

  • Who is calling the shots in this house?

Meaning relationships

Synonyms: call the shots, call the tune

Antonyms: none provided

Broader terms: control, command

History

Etymology

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Across languages

Translations

23 source translations are retained for this English entry.

  • Armenian: տան գլուխը լինել (tan gluxə linel) — to be the dominant partner
  • Catalan: portar els pantalons — to be the dominant partner
  • Catalan: tenir la paella pel mànec — to be the dominant partner
  • Chinese Mandarin: 掌权 (zhǎngquán) — to be the dominant partner
  • Chinese Mandarin: 当家 (dāngjiā) — to be the dominant partner
  • Czech: rozhodovat — to be the dominant partner
  • Czech: nosit kalhoty — to be the dominant partner
  • Danish: have bukserne på — to be the dominant partner
  • Dutch: de broek aanhebben — to be the dominant partner
  • Finnish: määrätä — to be the dominant partner
  • Finnish: näyttää kaapin paikka — to be the dominant partner
  • French: porter la culotte — to be the dominant partner
  • French: porter le pantalon — to be the dominant partner
  • German: die Hosen anhaben — to be the dominant partner
  • Hungarian: viseli a nadrágot — to be the dominant partner
  • Norwegian Bokmål: ha buksene på — to be the dominant partner
  • Portuguese: mandar na casa — to be the dominant partner
  • Romanian: purta pantalonii — to be the dominant partner
  • Romanian: fi cocoș în casă — to be the dominant partner
  • Romanian: fi capul familiei — to be the dominant partner
  • Russian: верхово́дить в до́ме (verxovóditʹ v dóme) — to be the dominant partner
  • Russian: быть в до́ме хозя́ином (bytʹ v dóme xozjáinom) — to be the dominant partner
  • Spanish: llevar los pantalones — to be the dominant partner