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you can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar

proverb · 1 senses · updated from the 2026-07-25 local source snapshot

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proverb

Meaning 1

It is easier to persuade others with polite requests and a positive attitude rather than with rude demands and negativity.

Definition source: English Wiktionary via Wiktextract

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Across languages

Translations

12 source translations are retained for this English entry.

  • Chinese Mandarin: 良言一句三冬暖 — It is easier to persuade others with polite requests and a positive attitude rather than with rude demands and negativity
  • Dutch: vliegen vang je met stroop en niet met azijn — It is easier to persuade others with polite requests and a positive attitude rather than with rude demands and negativity
  • Finnish: hunaja toimii paremmin kuin etikka — It is easier to persuade others with polite requests and a positive attitude rather than with rude demands and negativity
  • Finnish: kärpäsiä saa enemmän siirapilla kuin tervalla — It is easier to persuade others with polite requests and a positive attitude rather than with rude demands and negativity
  • French: plus fait douceur que violence — It is easier to persuade others with polite requests and a positive attitude rather than with rude demands and negativity
  • French: on n'attrape pas des mouches avec du vinaigre — It is easier to persuade others with polite requests and a positive attitude rather than with rude demands and negativity
  • German: mit einem Tropfen Honig fängt man mehr Fliegen als mit einem Fass Essig — It is easier to persuade others with polite requests and a positive attitude rather than with rude demands and negativity
  • Hungarian: kedvességgel / szép szóval többre mész, mint keménykedéssel — It is easier to persuade others with polite requests and a positive attitude rather than with rude demands and negativity
  • Italian: si pigliano più mosche in una gocciola di miele che in un barile d'acete — It is easier to persuade others with polite requests and a positive attitude rather than with rude demands and negativity
  • Polish: możesz osiągnąć więcej, gdy jesteś miły dla innych — It is easier to persuade others with polite requests and a positive attitude rather than with rude demands and negativity
  • Slovene: Več muh se ujame na med kot na kis. — It is easier to persuade others with polite requests and a positive attitude rather than with rude demands and negativity
  • Spanish: más moscas se cogen con miel que con hiel — It is easier to persuade others with polite requests and a positive attitude rather than with rude demands and negativity